Oral Over-Responders have neurons that respond very quickly and with intensity.
ORAL OVER RESPONDERS
Behaviors that you will see when a child is over responsive includes:
- Gag or Vomit
- Tantrums at the table.
- Requires TV to eat or needs a toy at the table.
- Refuse to touch food/refuses to feed self or throws food to the floor.
- Run away from the table or refuse to sit.
- Picky eater or have a very limited diet.
- Avoid certain tastes.
- Rigid eating habits.
- Caregivers employ force feeding.
- Can be underweight or undernourished due to avoiding food.
Many times, these children look pleasantly plump because they are getting full of high calorie laden liquids (milk/juice) and lots of crunchy carbs. When you consider health and nutrition, we need to also be concerned about food variety and micronutrients contained in the foods we are consuming, and this is why I am so adamant that a nutritionist and the physician be an integral part of the feeding team.
Try these strategies:
1. Environmental issues that may be hampering mealtime:
** Surprise** Sometimes it is not the food at all. It is everything else going on that the child just cannot overcome. The noise level in the home, the smell coming from the garbage you haven’t’ taken out for 3 weeks, the clutter in the home or on his tray or the table that is visually distracting, the toys that are sitting on the table that he cannot eat without, the fact that he is bound to a chair and cannot get up and no one is there – he /she is left alone. Children will act out in these types of situations.
2. Establish A Mealtime Routine:
1. Time of day.
2. Place in the home and possibly a specific place at the table.
3. Pre meal “heavy work activities” of the body and the mouth (see Proprioceptive Input Handout in previous section).
4. Handwashing pre and post meal.
5. Establish responsibilities (bring utensils and paper towel to the table)
6. Sit with the child to eat.
3. Autonomy and Control:
1. Have the child help you make a weekly meal schedule and do the shopping together.
2. Allow the child to participate in as many aspects of cooking as possible.
3. Allow the child to have control over his food and worry about the mess after the meal. STOP wiping face!! When you are constantly wiping a child’s face, it is very disorganizing. No one reaches in and wipes your face while you are eating. Don’t do it to the child. Let it be!
4. Let the child decide if he wants to wear a bib or not. Sometimes it is how the bib feels or sounds that is disruptive at a mealtime.
5. Give the child permission to spit. Just because it goes in the mouth doesn’t mean the food MUST swallow. Spitting is ok as long as we teach them to do it in the right way. This is a social skill that can be taught (napkins are best).
4. Use his FASCINATIONS:
If he likes dinosaurs, then get dinosaur cookie cutters and make his sandwiches in the shape of a dinosaur. Truth be told: One of the things I have not wholly embraced is “playing with food”. I just can’t buy into building mashed potato castles, but I do think it is fun to let kids make things with their food such as using chocolate chips to decorate a pancake or to stick carrot sticks out of each side of the corner of the mouth to look like a walrus. Mealtimes can be fun too.
5. Texture Play outside of mealtimes.
The concept here is that a child will not eat a texture if he is unable to tolerate touching it from a sensory perspective. Below is a hierarchy of textures to progress through:
a. Dry textures that don't leave residue (dry rice bins, dry bean bins, dry noodle bins, pom-pom balls, texture cloths/fabrics.
b. Dry textures that DO leave residue (sand, cornmeal, chalk, compost/dirt).
c. Damp textures that mostly fall away (slightly damp sand, silly string, PlayDoh)
d. Wet textures that are familiar and don't leave residue (water play, ice cubes)
e. Wet moving into sticky that leave residue (wet sand, mud, finger paint)
f. Sticky textures (shaving cream, glue, stickers, slime)
g. Foods that are dry (crushed cookies or graham crackers, Cheetos, Doritos, Powdered donuts, granular sugar, the list is long)
h. Foods that are wet (cooked noodles, cooked rice, icing, yogurt, pudding, oranges, apples, avocado, ketchup or other condiment, the list is long)
i. Foods that are sticky (melted chocolate, ice cream, jelly, sucker that is getting all over the hands)
6. WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT at a mealtime.
***Adult Caregivers job is to decide what the child eats, where the child eats and when the child eats.
***The child’s responsibilities are to decide IF and how much they will eat.
Nina Ayd Johanson, MA, MS, CCC-SLP, CLC presented the RESPONSIBILITIES notion in her AEIOU course. Responsive Feeding: The Baby Cued Method. I have used this with teaching the very foundation of my feeding strategies with families ever since. Parent and Child have responsibilities related to the meal. The parent cannot do the child’s job and the child cannot do the parent’s job. If we keep this basic premise in mind, we can navigate some of the difficult problems that arise with feeding and mealtime management.
And, from Kaye Toomey's SOS Approach to feeding, the concept that a child should be offered at least 1 food that he WILL eat at each meal and as much of it as he/she needs while working toward gaining new foods.
7. Proprioceptive "Heavy Work" for the mouth and other Sensory Input.
a. SAFE CHEWING TOYS:
Find things in the toybox that are safe for the child to chew. If the parent wants the child to stop chewing holes in their blanket or the soft plush toy animals that is great!, but we need to offer them another object they like to chew on and sometimes that can be the biggest challenge. Finding the right thing. There are so many products out there these days for safe chewing and one of my go to places in ARK Therapeutics. The items are soft rubber that are specifically made for chewing. Many infant oral stimulators will fill this need from Sophie the Girraff to any of a number of silicone teethers. Simply do an amazon search to find a variety of items.
**If the child is chewing so veraciously that the items are being broken, then find something firmer. The ARK items can be ordered in different densities.
Also, you may want to consider oral motor toys/activities with vibratory input.
b. VIBRATION can be found in:
kids' toothbrushes, Z-vibe (oral stimulation from ARK Therapeutics), Infant oral teethers with vibration, handheld massagers that can be placed on the head/face, vibrating spoon attachments to the z-vibe.
c. TEMPERATURE is another good way to intensify the input:
Try icy cold water, put teethers in the freezer, wet a towel and put it in the freezer to have a cold rag to chew on.
-Smoothies and popsicles
d. PROPRIOCEPTIVE INPUT OR “HEAVY WORK” FOR THE MOUTH:
Proprioception offers the mouth input from the muscles and joints. It allows us to make sense of location in space, pressure, and grading of input.
> Chewing:
Aside from chewing on a chewy tube or plastic toy, our kiddos that are under-responsive may really enjoy chewing on foods that are chewy. This includes, beef jerky, taffy, fruit leather, fruit roll ups, gummy worms, nuts, raw carrot or celery sticks, and yes…GUM.
Under responders need more impact!! They will probably do better with tastes that are more powerful too (spicy, sour, bitter, pungent)
If you are afraid the child will choke on the food, then consider a fabric bolus.
> Blowing:
Believe it or not, blowing is a motor skill. Knowing how to inhale to fill the lungs and exhale to let it out takes a bit of practice, not to mention the lip rounding and awareness of your proximity of lips to the bubble wand. Add to that the fact you are doing proprioceptive work for the mouth and new awareness of how it supports stimulation of the Vagus N. and it is a fabulous activity IF THE CHILD IS DOING IT!! It doesn’t count if you are the one blowing the bubbles.
> Sucking:
Sucking becomes heavy work when it is more difficult. You can grade suck strength by: Changing the viscosity of the liquid being offered (milk v/s milkshake). Changing the amount in the cup. Changing the length of the straw. Changing the diameter of the straw.
> Licking:
I consider the ability to lick an ADL. I like that if I am eating a hamburger, I can lick the mayonnaise off the corner of my mouth. It is personal hygiene. I also like that when I am offered an ice-cream cone, I can lick the cold ice cream – that is self-feeding. Without being able to extend, retract and laterally shift the tongue we cannot perform these basic things. I have started carrying a plastic mirror in my bag and when we are doing feeding activities, I bring it in. I do not clean faces, I let them see the problem and address it either by licking or wiping it off.
> Mouth Noises:
Kids really love when they can imitate fun noises you are making. To make it even more interesting, you can set a metronome at different intervals /speeds to try to keep the tempo or try to click to the beat of a favorite song.
> Bite and Hold Exercises:
Work toward getting the child to bite down on something and sustain the contraction for longer periods of time. This can be done fairly easily by playing tug of war with a dog toy or even a hand towel.
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