AUDITORY UNDER-RESONDERS AND SEEKERS
Behaviors that you will see when a child is under responsive includes:
- Don’t respond when name is called.
- Slow to respond to questions or with information being said.
- Constantly make noise to add to the auditory input because this is helping me stay alert or because I need the silence filled with noise.
- Need background noise such as TV or radio.
Try these strategies:
1. Maintain close proximity-First, you will be louder if you are closer and second, you will want to gain eye contact (if possible) or use a touch cue and gesture cue during the interaction.
2. Eye Contact
It is vital for you to understand that I can hear you and you can hear me without eye contact. However, eye contact is a condition of joint attention and engagement and something we would love to see with our children with sensory processing difficulties. When we make eye contact, we can begin to get information… visual information which may mean the difference between understanding someone is being sarcastic or not. Eye contact should not be forced.
- Be face-to-face – Make sure you are in a physical position that will encourage eye contact – that is, being face-to-face and at his physical level. If your child is lying on the floor, get down on the floor with him and face him. If he is sitting at a table, sit directly across from him, maybe on a low chair so you can be eye-to-eye with him.
- Wait, wait, wait – By waiting right before a key part of an activity – like right before you let the car go down the ramp, or right before you blow some bubbles – it builds anticipation and gets your child’s attention. If you are face-to-face when you wait during these moments, it’s more likely your child will look at you to see what’s coming next and use his eyes to ask you to keep the activity going.
- Give your child a reason to look – Doing something unexpected or doing it the wrong way is a great way to get your child’s attention and encourages eye contact. Put the playdoh on your nose, try to balance a ball on your head, or put a puzzle piece in the wrong spot, it will likely get a reaction and encourage your child to look.
- Choose the right activity – Many children with sensory processing differences find it difficult to shift their attention between a toy and a person while they play. This means that encouraging eye contact while playing with a toy can be tricky. An easier time to encourage eye contact is during People Games, like tickles, chase, or hide and seek, when it’s just you and your child playing together...without a toy to steal the attention, the focus can be on the people in the game.
3. Repeition-(Repeating a name call is not effective!! Even if you begin screaming it.)John….John…John…John!! When I see people doing this, I want to say, “Get your tail up, put your phone down, and walk over to the child to get his attention!!"
- Repeat what you said but offer additional cues (touch cue to get attention, visual cue, model, gesture).
- You can try in a different tone or cadence.
- Use a different word to get attention, possibly, “WOW! Look at this!” or “What is that?”
- Use exaggeration.
4. Speed- Slow the communication speed you are using. If you know the child is processing slowly, make sure that your gesture cues or visual supports are timed with his/her “looks”.
5. Visual Supports (written directions, visual schedules, gestures)
- Visual supports can be something as simple as a point (gesture)
- Visual supports can be using your hands to be expressive (putting your hand over your mouth, bouncing your body up and down as you are laughing or touching your temple as you are saying, “I wonder.”)
- Visual supports can be a “First/Then” board, A “visual schedule”, a “Picture Selection Board”.
- A visual support can be picture directions or written directions for children who can read.
6. Tactile Cue-touch to get attention.